Written by Alun Jenkins — matchmaker, interviewer and confidant to some of Britain’s most successful women for over 35 years
INTELLIGENT WOMEN FIND YOUR SOULMATE
The Book That Finally Tells Women The Truth About Men AND COMMITMENT
Pre-order before 15 May 2026 and receive a signed first edition — post free
Where to find him
Understanding
See what commitment really looks like
Marry him
Connection
Meet him where he actually is
Arrive at where you really want to be
Transformation
Build the life you actually want
Transformation
Transform your love life
“Understand the right sort of man for you and where to
meet him”
• Slack Champion
• New Certification
Real experience. Real lives. MEN and women
Alun Jenkins has sat across tables from some of Britain’s most successful women for more than three and a half decades. This book is the distillation of what they told him — things they had never told their friends, families, or therapists.
Make It Happen
What would you like to understand?
Emily Carter
Why do men seem interested at first, then slowly pull away?
Make It Happen
Make It Happen
Often, it isn’t a lack of interest — it’s a lack of alignment.
Understanding what he’s really looking for changes everything.
Often, it isn’t a lack of interest — it’s a lack of alignment.
Understanding what he’s really looking for changes everything.
35+
Years of one-to-one interviews with successful British women
100
%
Every story in this book is genuine — taken from real five-hour interviews conducted in complete confidence
95
%
Of the women Alun worked with had not yet found the partner they hoped for — despite their success
Case Study
I believe this book will transform your life.
It is not written to flatter you. It is written to help you understand the real world of men and relationships — why your love life looks the way it does, and how to change it.
Alun Jenkins
Author, makeIThappen.love
What readers are saying
“The chapter on how men think alone is worth the cover price. I wish I had read this book ten years ago.”
— Sarah M.,
CEO, London
“Finally — someone who tells you the truth, not just what you want to hear. This book changed the way I approach every relationship.”
— Dr. Rachel T.,
Birmingham
“I recommended it to four friends before I had even finished reading it. The stories are real, the advice is practical, and it works.”
— Claire H., Entrepreneur
Entrepreneur
“I’ve read plenty of books like this before. This is the first one that actually felt grounded in real experience.”
— Victoria P., London
London
Everything you need to know
Who is this book written for?
This book was specifically written for intelligent, successful women who have built a remarkable life — but have not yet found the right partner. If that is you, you are not alone.
When does the book publish?
The official publication date is 15 May 2026. Advance orders placed before that date will receive a signed first edition, posted free of charge.
How do I pre-order?
Leave your name and email address using the order form above. We will contact you in May 2026 for your payment and delivery details. The book is £28 plus £3 postage (post free on pre-orders).
Is the book based on real stories?
Yes. Every story in the book is 100% genuine, drawn from five-hour confidential interviews conducted by Alun Jenkins over more than 35 years. No stories have been invented or exaggerated.
How do I contact the author?
Email Alun directly at alun@makeIThappen.love — he personally reads and replies to every message.
What topics does the book cover?
The book covers 26 chapters including: how men think, the type of man you need, where to meet him, how to flirt, handling early dates, building commitment, and why previous relationships may not have worked — with answers grounded in real experience.