Written by Alun Jenkins — matchmaker, interviewer and confidant to some of Britain’s most successful men & women for over 35 years
The Book That Finally Tells Women The Truth About Men AND COMMITMENT
Pre-order before 1 June 2026 and receive a signed first edition — post free
Where to find him
How to date him
See what commitment really looks like
Marry him
Connection
Make it Happen
Arrive at where you really want to be
Build the life you actually want
Transformation
Transform your love life
“Understand the right sort of man for you and where to
meet him”
Real experience. Real lives. MEN and women
Alun Jenkins has sat across tables from some of Britain’s most successful men & women for more than three and a half decades. This book is the distillation of what they told him — things they had never told their friends, families, or therapists.
Case Study
I believe this book will transform your life.
It is not written to flatter you. It is written to help you understand the real world of men and relationships — why your love life looks the way it does, and how to change it.
Alun Jenkins
Author of Intelligent Women find your soulmate
Everything you need to know
Who is this book written for?
This book was specifically written for intelligent, successful women who have built a remarkable life — but have not yet found the right partner. If that is you, you are not alone.
When does the book publish?
The official publication date is 15 May 2026. Advance orders placed before that date will receive a signed first edition, posted free of charge.
How do I pre-order?
Leave your name and email address using the order form above. We will contact you in May 2026 for your payment and delivery details. The book is £28 plus £3 postage (post free on pre-orders).
Is the book based on real stories?
Yes. Every story in the book is 100% genuine, drawn from five-hour confidential interviews conducted by Alun Jenkins over more than 35 years. No stories have been invented or exaggerated.
How do I contact the author?
Email Alun directly at alun@makeIThappen.love — he personally reads and replies to every message.
What topics does the book cover?
Who is Alun Jenkins?, The chemistry of Barbara Windsor, Terminology used in this book, Learn to flirt, Repeating patterns, Self-analysis questionnaire notes, Where do I get good dates, The questionnaire, How to handle the first telephone call, Who are you and why?, Handling your first and second date, The three categories of women, Developing the relationship to development, The role modelling of men, Sustaining the relationship for life, The three types of men, Pheromones and lots of true stories, Understanding men, Answers to questionnaire, What is love?, What do the scores mean, The dating rules for women, Why it easier for a man to find a partner, How to find Mr Superman, Various relevant facts, Contact details